- Years old:
- I am 63
Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married for almost eight years. We have three kids, ages 5, 3, and one.
Is something wrong with me that i’ve started finding this disgusting?
I am now a vibrant, attractive divorced woman with a lot to offer. I look forward to spending the next chapter of my life with a special man. In both cases, their interest level was high at first but fell apart later. Imagine my shock at finding the tables turned!
Older guys apparently are extremely sensitive around the issue of sexual performance. Yes, there may be fewer compatible men available to you at your age, but they are out there.
I hope you always practice safe sex. It is possible that men in your age group are especially sensitive, but you should also take stock of how you express your own wants and needs, in order to decode how you are communicating your desires and expectations. It might be best for you to be candid early on, versus perhaps waiting to develop an emotional connection before you experience a sexual one.
And yes, a younger man might be the hot ticket for you. I can be pretty.
I am homeschooled, but have made many efforts to meet other people my age. Do you have any tips?
I was a lot like you when I was your age. Homeschooling may have prevented you from having some important social opportunities — those friendship-building experiences that most high-schoolers are exposed to. Get involved in theater. Research theater programs and camps for this summer.
At your age, romance often blooms from friendship. Putting on a show is a wonderful team-building, friendship-making and potentially romance-blooming experience.
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